Why I Wish She Wore a Facemask – A fanshare

My name is Zoe, and I am 16 year old fastpitch player. I am a power hitter. I normally hit in the 3-5 spot, because my coaches pretty much trust me to hit the ball HARD, and move runners around.

When I am not hitting, I play catcher and as you may know, I wear a ton of protective gear. None of it is comfortable. Most of it makes hot days even hotter, and yet no one would expect me to take the field without it. Even with the equipment I wear, I have been cleated, suffered a concussion from taking a hard hit by a runner at the plate, have broke a few fingers and walk away from most games battered and bruised. I know that my equipment is not only necessary, but mandatory.

When I saw that you guys were doing a facemask awareness, I have to admit that I was happy about it. Most of my teammates do not wear masks. Some started out wearing them when we were younger, but have started leaving them in the bottom of their bat bags as time has went on.

Last year, during a 3 day tournament that many teams traveled from far away to play in I caused an accident. In a particular competitive game, I came up to bat and was lucky enough to get thrown the perfect pitch for me. Waist high, straight down the middle. And as I always do, I swung with all my might hoping to score some runs for my team. The bat and ball connected perfectly, like so perfectly that I didn’t even feel it sting my hands. And the ball was hit directly back to the pitcher. It her square in the face, breaking her nose, her orbital bone and knocking out 3 of her front teeth. She was not wearing a mask.

As a hitter, that was probably the worst day of my entire life. When she got hit, blood immediately spewed everywhere and I can remember running to first base in what felt like slow motion. By the time I arrived, time had been called – and the pitcher was lying on the ground with her coaches and teammates huddled around her. The next thing I remember was the sound of sirens, and then an ambulance arriving to take the girl to the nearest children s hospital.

During those moments, knowing that even thought the injury was unintentional, I was responsible for hurting another player to this extent, I fell apart. I was inconsolable with tears. All the girls on the both teams were distraught after witnessing something like this firsthand. That night, I could not sleep, I kept replaying the incident in my head, worried about the girl that I hit. For weeks, and months after wards every time I came up to bat, and saw a pitcher without a mask, I would replay that horrific day.


In fact, the guilt and fear, and trauma that I suffered was almost enough to make me never want to hit again. It’s been one year since this happened to me, and I have to admit that I am still not all the way ‘over’ it. Sometimes I have dreams about it. Things like this, even though they are accidents, truly make an impact on your brain, and change the way you think.

For a while after this incident, most of the players on my team went back to playing with their masks on. The sound of a ball hitting the bones of the face and crushing teeth is not something that you want to happen to you or anyone else. And we all know that it can happen anytime, during any game, for any reason. When you go many years without a tragic incident its easy to forget.

I was able to talk to the girl that I hit, and to see her face to face to know that she was okay. So far, she has not been back on the field, because the ball did some damage to one of her eyes that has impacted her vision, likely permanently. She also had to have several dental surgeries to correct her teeth. And thankfully, she was not mad at me, and I think that she has forgiven me. The hard part is forgiving myself, and trying to forget, even though I know it was just an accident. But I always think now that had she worn a mask, she probably would have been hurt – but not-nearly as severely as she was without one.

I just wanted to share my story, because as proud as I am of being a great power hitter – I have to admit that I feel a sense of relief when I come up to the plate and pitchers are wearing their masks. It has taken a lot for me to recover from this as well.

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  1. Kevin Detroia on February 16, 2016 at 11:24 am

    Thank you for this story. I as a coach and vice President of our little league Softball organization made this a house rule last season and I received nothing but slack from our board members. It passed however. I am trying to make this a Little league rule hopefully down the road. My daughter always wears her mask at game time and practice and her position is center field. You can never be too safe.

  2. Cindy Mangome on February 16, 2016 at 11:58 am

    You are so brave sharing this story with the world to read. I can’t begin to imagine what you must be feeling. My daughter plays softball and she ALWAYS wears a mask. Unfortunately, some of her friends are part of teams where the coaches actually tell them they will not allow facemasks on the field because it makes them look scared and weak. We are blessed with coaches that put their safety first. Keep sharing your story and keep playing hard. I’m certain that player has forgiven you after realizing it was a very unfortunate accident. Good luck !!!

  3. Gary Leland on February 16, 2016 at 12:10 pm

    I agree that girls should wear Faceguards. That is why I created https://Faceguards.com

  4. Robert cooper on February 16, 2016 at 6:01 pm

    I feel all leagues and scantions make infield maks mandatory from clinic to collage

  5. Kristian on February 17, 2016 at 12:25 pm

    This happens in every sport, don’t feel bad.

  6. Andrew on February 18, 2016 at 7:19 am

    Why do you feel bad about this? You didn’t cause anything. You’re a power hitter and did exactly what you were supposed to do. She’s the one that threw a meatball. It sucks that she got injured, but this isn’t on you.

  7. Troy Thompson on February 18, 2016 at 7:49 pm

    What a great article! You said exactly what needs to he said! First of all you need to know this accident was not your fault. It was the fault of what ever softball organization or affiliation you were playing for. I am amazed that the ASA, USSSA, or any other softball affiliation does not make it mandatory for at least the pitchers, third basemen and first basemen to wear protective mask. Especially HiGH SCHOOLS!
    What is horrible is when you hear coaches discourage the use of these mask because they say some college coaches will not look at you if you wear one! I would not want my daughter to play for a college coach that feels that way!
    I am so glad you wrote this article!
    You are to be commended! Good job kiddo!

  8. Viola on February 18, 2016 at 8:52 pm

    I’m so glad I read this story because I have 2 girls ages 9 & 7 & this is their first year in softball & they will certainly be wearing their face masks at all times!!

  9. Lynn Pinkela on March 20, 2016 at 12:20 am

    Just wanted to tell you that I witnessed this first hand today! My daughter 14U came up to bat and quickly took out the pitcher, line drive back to her face. We have since heard from this player that she is going to be ok. Which I am very grateful for. My daughter was also very shaken up . But the good news is that she was one of those pitchers that did not want to wear a mask while pitching either, and guess what was on her face the very next game. Her new mask will be here Monday and she won’t be pitching without it from here on out.

  10. Charles on March 17, 2019 at 10:22 pm

    Hello, my name is Charles Bradbary and I am a sophomore at Queens University of Charlotte. I am entering my schools’ pitch competition later this month and am currently doing market research for a pitching helmet that I am designing. This would be an alternative to the face guards that softball pitchers currently wear while also being designed for pitchers in baseball. I understand that your time is very valuable but if you could take a moment to answer these six questions it will help me get an understanding of the potential demand for a product such as this. I greatly appreciate any feedback you could provide!

    Charles Bradbary
    Queens University of Charlotte Class of 2021


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